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ZU
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| 06/29/2010 7:51 PM |
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| What do you think if your boyfriend (really engaged) kiss other girl before the engagement day and he told you a few months after the engagemente day. What is your opinion? He is so sorry about that and he works to improve the relation. |
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nazarene
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| 07/10/2010 4:38 PM |
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| I'm no expert. This is a hard question because both cases could be true. He could seriously be reptentant, sorry and willing to atone for it, and not let it happen again. Or that could not be the case, he might be sorry but still weak and vulnerable, or he could just not even really be sorry. You have to get to the point where you can decide which one of these you think it is. You have to probe and discover - but please, do this in a respectful voice and tone, with a respectful attitude, which will cause him to open up, otherwise you will push him away and close him off. Maybe premarital counceling will help you reach this point. basically, you have to discern his heart, because in this case it could be either, or. I think, my .02 for what it's worth, I'm no expert though and I don't have the answers |
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